Where to turn

I've come to the realization that there's not much help in this world.  I saw this post on facebook and I thought it was funny... it said "Before sex people help each other get undressed, but after sex they dress themselves, moral of the story, no one helps you once your fucked"  It's kind of true...  With the exception of family, which some people can't even turn to them, what kind of help can you get when you have problems.  My friend got laid off from his job the other day and he told me that he desperately needed a job, no matter what it was.  Luckily I helped him get a job at my restaurant, but other than that I can't do much besides offer my moral support.  No matter how close you are with your friends, how much can they help you in your time of need.  They can't pay your bills, work for you, solve your relationship problems, or solve your family problems.  At best they can lend you money, or offer advice, or moral support, but at the end of the day, everything is up to you.