Words of Wisdom

I work at an Italian restaurant called Linguini's and one of my favorite servers quit about 2 months ago.  Her name is Nyanda and she posted this on her facebook yesterday "We can not help those who do not wanna help themselves.....or are to oblivious to see the destructive path they've created due to selfishness.....your energy makes me emotionally and mentally exhausted.....it's time to practice what I preach and learn from my mistakes rather then continuing to repeat them...so I'm letting go, in hopes that you find yourself, you lost soul."  I feel like alot of us have a friend that we want to help so badly, but we can't.  They refuse to accept or even acknowledge help is required.  What can you do?  When you have repeatedly tried to help someone and nothing has worked.  As difficult as it may be, the best option for yourself is to let go.  Its not worth being exhausted and if they don't want your help then the best thing to do for yourself is to let that person find themselves.  Letting go is something we all must learn at some point in life...